Do you want to raise your kids in the best possible way? well, this is your article, no one want from his kid to be a bad guy, and to stop him from being that, you have to start so early, from the start of his upbringing until the day he grows and become a real man.
1 let them play outside
When they play outside they learn new things and it’s an important thing to help them to develop, there is no problem if they clothes got dirty, or they got some small injuries, nothing is going to happen for them.
You have to know how important is playing outside for your kids, it means a lot for them, running outside or climbing trees, and also digging in the earth isn’t that bad.
It’s can improve their social skills and also some studies have already shown that kids with good social skill have a bigger chance to go to college.
2 limit their time on screens and on their smartphones
As a parent, you have to watch every big and small thing your child does, am not talking about the full prohibition of these devices, am talking about making specific time for their use per day.
It’s can damage them by a lot of ways for example if they went into some sexual sites per coincidence this will be a big problem, and also it can damage their eyes if they were using them for a long time, even TV is one of the things that we are talking about them here.
3 make them love to help people
Every human loves to do good things, so make them help people will be a great idea, when they help someone he will thank them, and well know that children love to be thanked or to get some praised.
Its make them feel better about themselves.
4 be sure to have dinner all together
Having dinner together is one of the best things that you can make your child do, well children love to eat all the times because of their big activities in the day, but eating together must be, a study has shown that when all family eats together your kid will be in a good and positive mode.
And also if he eats with you you will be sure that he is eating a portion of healthy food, instead of what he can eat outside of the house.
5 stop giving him everything he wants to get
This can be a good thing but don’t do it always, giving your kid a gift will make him happy yes this a sure thing, they love gifts, but if you give him a lot of gifts every time he do a good thing you buy for him something, this will make him do a lot of good things, and if you stop giving him gifts he will stop doing good things.
So resist your desire to reward your child every time, and reward him only time in a month,
6 exercise as a family
Do with your child some exercises, if you have decided to do a nightly walk outside or you workout in your room or even you play with him the games that he loves, or even you teaching him something or eve you are helping him to solve his math homework, all of this will help him.
So trust me this thing will make him feels that he has a very great family instead of just
7 Justice among your children
you can say this is an important topic in the whole raising kids prosses because it will make them feel with the equivalent between them, and not start hating each other, to grow a happy family.
When you have a fight between them just listen for everyone and then make them reconcile, at that time don’t tell for anyone that he is the wrong one, even if he was really wrong in that situation, take him after that accident alone and talk to him, and explain everything for him
8teach them self-control
Teach them to never act when they angry, and also never talk, when they are angry they can say some very bad things, that they don’t mean to say at all, for example, he can say for someone that he is ugly, and this thing will definitely hurt the other person.
• Put all electronics in one place before bedtime to avoid the use of theme in bed and harm their health
• send them to their rooms to do the homework before go anyplace or do anything
• teach them to not get distracted with other people lives and focus just on their own lives
10 teach them good manners
you need to know that you will raise a child that will go out to the world so you need to teach him good manners such as saying: “Thank you” and “Please” . according to a study that the child’s that have good manners grow up to become a successful human in the future.
And also they will treat you better, you can go out and see how many kids are insulting their father in the street, a very sad thing that you have absolutely try your best to avoid it in the future.
11 Treat Them With Kindness and Respect
the most effective way to make your child speak to you or other people respectfully and to interact with others in a nice manner is by doing exactly that yourself when you interact with your child.the child is a perfect copier of his father in the future.
Don’t ever yell on your kid, even if he was or did something wrong, this thing will make him hate you and making him see you as an enemy isn’t a good idea at all.